Likewise, I hear stories, too. Seldom are they about complete contentment and the ultimate fact that, while we don't have influence over most of our circumstances, the way we react to them is only our choice and thus responsibility. I say what I say exactly because the broad brush paints over myself which in turn allows me to recognize and verbalize these inclinations in others too. In other words, limits have nothing to do with, and are a poor excuse for, behaving like an idiot. And blaming some imaginary faults, which are in our power to influence, is a cheap copout.