I hear you, and frankly, this ain't a question of faith or forgiveness for me. If it was, I would not bother to be here writing in the first place. People struggle to keep up because they hate. Universe, God, other people, you name it. Than is in essence self-hate. However, the main point was in second to last sentence -- no one was born that way. Some things simply leave no wiggle room and have to be said, otherwise all progress that you see will always address just symptoms instead of the actual causes.

Take care, too :)