I already told you many times what are the myths about enlightenment (and I was not the only one who've done so). I also gave you a lot of hints, but somehow you tend to ignore them (e.g. see the question in my last reply). I wish it was a simple matter of understanding in the way one can learn e.g. mathematics. Sadly, or happily, depending on how you look at it (but in essence it's just the way things are), you have to taste the immortality yourself. Then you will have all the answers you seek and all those paradoxes which make your head go round will make perfect sense. There's no way anyone can explain it to you so that you will know, exactly as no one can explain to you how ice cream tastes - but I already repeat myself. Again.

All in all, you are like a horse standing by a well refusing to drink while complaining about thirst. Well, maybe you like being thirsty or maybe you like complaining. I don't know. But if you really want to know what is enlightenment, you have to really want to know. Then again, I suspect that you are merely trying to "win" an argument to prove something to yourself. I would also say that that is the attitude that prevents you from advancing. Well, perhaps you are comfortable where you are. In which case good for you, and good luck :)