the system that victimized these girls, and so many more like them

Exactly. Let’s not forget all the dysfunctional families where women use sex as a bargaining chip. Different scenario, but the underlying attitude is the same (only in reverse) — I give you body, when you bring the mammoth. Bonobos operate with similar logic. Also, what most women seem to miss (or they get it only too well :D) is that, for an average male, the full testicles are the same as full bladder ;)