Ask those who went through the hell of addiction and similar ordeals straight to "God's embrace" because nothing else could help. And of course that, unless one changes one's course and "repents", that hellish state is eternal, conscious, dark, and tormenting, as if being burned alive. This article reminds me of the old adage that the greatest trick the Devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn’t exist. I would say that your lukewarm stance stemming from the relative comfort and luxury of purgatory you live in (and are oblivious to) is rather telling.